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Post by TheReaperess on Sat Jan 29, 2011 10:50 pm

Do all guys look at other girls no matter what, even if they are HONESTLY in love


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Post by Forace on Sat Jan 29, 2011 11:24 pm

It's true. I know my fiance loves me, but he tells me if he thinks some other girl is pretty. And he told me, that he talked to this girl once, and told her she was pretty, but that's because that girl is troubled and depressed and has a crush on him, I think. He just felt sorry for her, he has no feeling for her whatsoever. I get mad at him, of course, I don't want any competition and I'm a jealous person :D
But he has told me, that I have nothing to worry about, that I'm pretty, too. And I trust him, he's not going to cheat on me or anything.
But! I also look at guys sometimes and think some of them are handsome. But I don't tell my fiance that, though I know he wouldn't care :/
And that's all. Just looking. I know it might hurt sometimes, but you can't really control what the other one is looking at and what they're thinking :)
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Post by TheReaperess on Sat Jan 29, 2011 11:48 pm

so ALL guys do? no matter what? ..that bites
I have never looked at another guy in all honesty XD maybe I'm just weird, I dunno.... I wish I could just read minds sometimes, it would make things easier XD
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Post by Liisu on Sun Jan 30, 2011 1:11 am

It's true. yap.
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Post by TheLastSongbird on Sun Jan 30, 2011 2:40 am

It's a natural thing for guys in general, pretty much. Girls do it too though, I'm really happy with my boyfriend, but I still look at other guys and think they're attractive. I have been told by one of his best friends that my boyfriend doesn't have eyes for anyone else but me, but I know that's not entirely true, because I've caught him looking at other women. I don't like it, but I can tolerate it, and that's the only thing we can do. I can definitely trust him not to cheat on me though. If you're with a guy, and they look at other girls but never touch, then don't think anything of it. Also, unless they give you a big reason not to trust them, then have faith that they're not gonna cheat on you. If you constantly show signs that you don't trust them around other girls, that will most likely push them away. They don't like to feel controlled all the time.

Honestly, don't be worrying too much about boys at your age though. Never worry about them at all actually, just live. The right person will come along on their own when it's the right time. Just to prove it, it was right when I stopped searching desperately for someone that my boyfriend came into my life. It really does happen when you're not looking for it Smile

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Post by TheReaperess on Sun Jan 30, 2011 2:46 am

haha thats kinda cute XD
well, I understand, I just wish I knew if it were possible for a guy to not look at other girls and just look at the one in all honesty...maybe I will become psychic like mewtwo..from pokemon =D
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Post by ZeeCaine on Sun Jan 30, 2011 7:30 am

Oooooh, yeah. I've been with my husband for four years (we just recently got married though,) and he still looks at other girls occasionally, and even watches porn sometimes. It's a guy thing - the inner need to "spread their wild oats." But, the true test of whether or not they're really interested in you is whether or not they cheat. "Looking's for free, touching will cost ya." xP

And believe me, being psychic does NOT help. I am a pretty powerful empath, and knowing what their feeling will only make you feel worse. I just see it as....he's looking at her now, but he's sleeping with/dreaming about ME later. lol
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Post by Forace on Sun Jan 30, 2011 9:14 am

Ooh, I get SO mad at my fiance if I find out he's been watching porn! :D That's where I draw the line. I have told him how bad it makes me feel, and he said he felt bad about it, too...
I just think porn stars are absolutely disgusting and ugly, and the whole act is just... blech :X And it makes me feel all ugly and fat and disgusting and all that... But I'm still depressed and insecure about myself, that's why.
It's just horrible. I don't understand why a man in a relationship wants to watch porn... I can't help but wonder what's wrong with me, why don't you come to me when you want something :'(

Ah, sorry, now I'm crying and shit... This is my problem, but I thought I'd share :)
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Post by ZeeCaine on Sun Jan 30, 2011 9:23 am

Forace - I feel the same way. When he does watch it, I get upset and ask him what's wrong with me that he has to look at other girls. But, I always get the same response...."Nothing's wrong with you." "I love you and you're very sexy." "I just had blue balls." *rolls eyes* It gets under my skin, but what can I do about it?
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Post by Forace on Sun Jan 30, 2011 9:39 am

When I ask him why, he says "I don't know" :/
If you can't give me a reason, stop it, then! :D
In our case, watching porn is pointless. I don't like it and get angry, and he doesn't know why he's watching. There's nothing wrong with our sex life, either. It's not boring or anything :'D

So I guess it really is just a guy thing...

If there's no reason to doubt a guy is cheating on you, then everything is fine. I guess :D

I once read a news article that said that a man is healthier if he sees boobs once a day xD

Women are pretty possessive about their men. Sure, there are women who watch porn with their men, but not me... I just get really uncomfortable :/
And women usually have these romantic ideas, where a man loves them unconditionally and never even glances at other girls :)
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Post by Natt on Sun Jan 30, 2011 10:05 am

why this topic doesn't have any titles???
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Post by Forace on Sun Jan 30, 2011 10:08 am

KerliPoland wrote:why this topic doesn't have any titles???
TheReaperess edited it for some reason... The topic is about if guys, who are in a relationship and in love, still look at other girls and think they're pretty :/
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Post by Natt on Sun Jan 30, 2011 10:14 am

Forace thanks, now I understand
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Post by ZeeCaine on Sun Jan 30, 2011 10:49 am

Forace wrote:

If there's no reason to doubt a guy is cheating on you, then everything is fine. I guess Very Happy


That's what I keep telling myself. xP
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Post by TheReaperess on Mon Jan 31, 2011 1:47 pm

I was trying to fix a typo and something went massively wrong and now i is confused oO woah....sorry XD
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Post by TheReaperess on Mon Jan 31, 2011 1:47 pm

I am gonna try to fix it
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Post by TheReaperess on Mon Jan 31, 2011 1:50 pm

I found out something that was uber awesome about this today though ^^ it just touched my heart....and no body may believe it, however it is so true and so adorable...if anyone wants to know tell me XD
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Post by ZeeCaine on Mon Jan 31, 2011 2:09 pm

Go ahead and tell us...we're all friends. Smile
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Post by TheReaperess on Mon Jan 31, 2011 2:30 pm

mmk so I decided to ask my guy friend if ALL guys..literally ALL guys did that and he told me that MOST do it but then there are those very few who still exist that don't oO it was so friggan cute cause he told me that he only looks at his girlfriend because she is the only one his eyes are ever on and when she isn't there he constantly thinks about XD it was cute...he is a bit obsessive but in a way, its a good thing. It just kinda shocked me and it was reallya adorable XD
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Post by ZeeCaine on Mon Jan 31, 2011 10:53 pm

haha....well, he's right. There are a [literal] handful of guys that probably don't. But, yeah, that was really sweet. Smile
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Post by TheReaperess on Tue Feb 01, 2011 5:46 pm

haha yeah...its just hard to find the good ones anymore...genuine people are just disappearing from Earth anymore XD
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Post by ZeeCaine on Tue Feb 01, 2011 6:44 pm

I feel ya. xP
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